How Can We Honor Veterans While Working for Peace?

Photo originally submitted to Historical Marker Database (https://www.hmdb.org/m.asp?m=101794) on March 6, 2017, by Michael Herrick of Southbury, Connecticut.

Remembering Richard E. Hourigan at Norwich’s Veterans Day Memorial Dedication

On Veterans Day, November 11, 2026, members of the Norwich community gathered at Chelsea Parade to dedicate a memorial tree and granite marker honoring Richard E. Hourigan, a United States Marine who lost his life during World War I.

The Rev. Dianne M. Daniels, Minister of the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Norwich, offered a reflection and blessing during the ceremony, remembering Hourigan’s service while affirming the enduring importance of compassion, remembrance, and peace.

The gathering offered an opportunity to consider an important question: How do we honor those who served and sacrificed without glorifying the suffering and violence of war?

Remembering a Life, Not Just a Name

Richard E. Hourigan died on October 4, 1918, during the Battle of Blanc Mont in France. He served as a Marine stretcher bearer, helping wounded service members amid the devastation of battle.

Today, Norwich’s Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 594 bears his name.

More than a century later, we remember him not simply as a name in the history books, but as a human being whose life mattered. He was part of a community, someone whose death brought grief and loss, and someone whose memory continues to touch lives generations later.

Remembering his service invites us to recognize both the courage of those who served and the terrible human cost of war.

As Rev. Daniels shared during the dedication:

“We remember the service without glorifying the suffering. We honor the sacrifice without celebrating the violence. And we give thanks for those who served while holding fast to the hope that future generations might know a more peaceful world.”

A Tree as a Living Memorial

There is something especially meaningful about choosing a tree as a memorial.

The memorial tree at Chelsea Parade is a descendant of Connecticut’s historic Charter Oak, connecting this remembrance to another part of our state’s history.

A stone marker preserves a name and a date. It reminds us of a life that ended.

But a tree speaks of life continuing.

Its roots reach into the earth, connecting it to the place where we stand. Its branches reach toward the sky, offering shelter and shade. And with each passing season, it reminds us that even in the presence of grief and loss, life continues to unfold.

As this tree grows, may it become a living invitation to remember Richard Hourigan, to honor the humanity of all who have served, and to recognize the enduring costs of war—not only to those who die, but to the families, friends, and communities who carry their memories forward.

Remembering with Gratitude, Compassion, and Hope

Unitarian Universalism affirms the inherent worth and dignity of every person and calls us to build relationships grounded in compassion, justice, and peace.

These commitments do not prevent us from honoring military service. Rather, they invite us to remember the full humanity of those who served, including their hopes, their relationships, their sacrifices, and the lives they might otherwise have lived.

For those of us whose families include military veterans, remembrance can hold many emotions at once: pride, gratitude, grief, concern, and a deep desire for peace.

We can hold these feelings together without contradiction.

During the dedication, Rev. Daniels offered this blessing:

May this tree grow strong, its roots deep and its branches generous.

May this stone preserve his name for generations yet to come.

May those who pass this place remember that every life lost in war was a life filled with possibility, connection, and worth.

And may our remembrance inspire us to work for a world where courage is expressed not only in service and sacrifice, but also in compassion, reconciliation, justice, and peace.

Carrying Remembrance Forward

The dedication at Chelsea Parade was more than a recognition of an event from the distant past. It was an opportunity for our community to acknowledge a life, honor a family’s enduring remembrance, and consider our responsibility to future generations.

As we remember Richard E. Hourigan and all those whose lives have been shaped by military service, we are invited to ask what remembrance requires of us today.

Perhaps it begins with gratitude for those who served, compassion for those who grieve, care for veterans and their families, and a renewed commitment to resolving differences without violence.

The closing words of the memorial blessing offer a path forward:

“May memory deepen our gratitude. May gratitude strengthen our compassion. And may compassion guide our steps toward peace.”

The Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Norwich is grateful for the opportunity to participate in this community remembrance. We welcome people of diverse beliefs and backgrounds who seek to live with compassion, deepen their spiritual lives, and work together for a more peaceful and just world.


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